Ins & Outs For Sex, Dating, Situationships, Hookups, and Love

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Ins:

  • Self Respect
  • Continued knowledge of mine and your own worth and being content and secure in the prioritization of that
  • Living life for myself
  • Making active choices for the betterment of my life
  • Harmless chaotic moments and choices
  • Girls not being quote on quote players or playing the IDGAF game
  • Standing up for myself!
  • Not thinking about what others around me think
  • Respecting myself, respecting my time, my feelings, my boundaries, my mind, my body, my limits, my desires, etc
  • True confidence
  • Giving as much to my life as I would others
  • Ditching single stigma!
  • Texting guys first
  • Learning a healthy balance with my emotional walls
  • Closing the orgasm gap….
  • Going on dates!

Outs:

  • Dating frat guys.
  • Letting people I invest my time into caring about not return the same energy 
  • Hanging out with people who only want to spend time with you while inhibited by substances
  • The stigma around casual dating/hookup culture
  • Lack of communication
  • Dwelling
  • Stigmatizing/perpetuating the stigma of the girl best friend or guy best friend being a relationship issue
  • Acting like its chill when friends tell us they don’t use protection
  • The misogyny paradox
  • Questioning myself and my identity in romantic/sexual scenarios
  • Letting others have my power 
  • Thinking about lives that “could have been”
  • Giving my energy, power, and thoughts to those who do not serve me 

HEY WAIT! Please read the link below becuase I think its something at least everyone should read once in their life!!

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