Ins:
- Self Respect
- Continued knowledge of mine and your own worth and being content and secure in the prioritization of that
- Living life for myself
- Making active choices for the betterment of my life
- Harmless chaotic moments and choices
- Girls not being quote on quote players or playing the IDGAF game
- Standing up for myself!
- Not thinking about what others around me think
- Respecting myself, respecting my time, my feelings, my boundaries, my mind, my body, my limits, my desires, etc
- True confidence
- Giving as much to my life as I would others
- Ditching single stigma!
- Texting guys first
- Learning a healthy balance with my emotional walls
- Closing the orgasm gap….
- Going on dates!
Outs:
- Dating frat guys.
- Letting people I invest my time into caring about not return the same energy
- Hanging out with people who only want to spend time with you while inhibited by substances
- The stigma around casual dating/hookup culture
- Lack of communication
- Dwelling
- Stigmatizing/perpetuating the stigma of the girl best friend or guy best friend being a relationship issue
- Acting like its chill when friends tell us they don’t use protection
- The misogyny paradox
- Questioning myself and my identity in romantic/sexual scenarios
- Letting others have my power
- Thinking about lives that “could have been”
- Giving my energy, power, and thoughts to those who do not serve me
HEY WAIT! Please read the link below becuase I think its something at least everyone should read once in their life!!

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