Sasha's Snippets: The Blog ;)

Life has been just so good :))))!!!!!

July: Wow this is going to be a big month. This is a month intended to be filled with steady confident energy, lemonade, being blissfully unaware (or at least pretending to be), yearning men, work/co-workers, reconnecting with school friends/my amazing, perfect, and wonderful big, female rage, dates and the monkey covering eyes emoji spammed!! Life has been pretty good – July is about to be a big month with some quite important events and milestones but I have this feeling I’m going to be more than ok!

Ins:

• Abbreviations
• “OOL” (out of the loop)
• Patting ourselves on the back for surviving everything we have lived through in our lives and coming out the other side who we see despite everything
• Acknowledging how smart I am
• Thoughts of the pure joy that is sweet partial drunk kisses through full teeth smiles
• Social gatherings
• Invisible ink for texts
• Sitting by a fire (patio)
• The unbeatable French fries and salad combo
• Helping others just because
• Ozempic allegations
• Showering those I love in love back
• Yearning men
• Being respected
• Complaining
• Margarita glasses for everything
• Sleep
• Expecting people to meet me on my level
• Raya
• Mourning while still living in the moment
• Europe
• Going to bed early
• Having a lethal face card
• DANCING!!! But more specifically dancing like a little gremlin until you can’t anymore
• Pig tails
• Men texting first
• Beach walks/exercise
• Glitter (but NOT on clothes)
• Sticking my nose in other peoples business harmlessly
• Arts and crafts with friends
• Confidence
• Honesty
• Grudges
• Positive outlooks
• Men with biceps and goals in life
• Being trouble/causing trouble
• Sun screen
• Water
• Building an ego (not an over inflated one, just one in general)
• Taking risks and being open to things I wouldn’t usually be open to
• Giggles
• Double dates
• My perfect, amazing, incredible, and flawless big❤️
• Sewing!!!!!
• Being “permanently derailed” and “the people’s princess” as I am
• Upping my fashion game
• Audacity, but more specifically, HAVING the audacity
• Ladybugs
• Being blissfully unaware
• Taking a deep breath
• Being lovable
• A lack of giving a fuck
• Lemonade
• Protecting my peace in ways I haven’t tried before
• Getting an apology from those who have wronged me
• BRAT summer
• Reclaiming July 19th for myself and all of the hard work I’ve done and person I’ve become today🩷
• Rainbows
• The color pink
• Being cool
• Putting the word “nepo” in front of words and in sentences it doesn’t always belong in
• Chiropractors
• Being spontaneous
• Work!!!!!!
• Feeling loved
• Themed hang outs/fun things to do
• IOS 18
• Amnesty – more specifically as a verb to be used when you want to say something, but everyone agrees to there being no repercussions that can be faced
• Sabrina Carpenter
• Loving!
• Dates!!!!
• Living in the present
• Treasuring Camp Cohen and what it means to me and eveyone in my life!!!!!
• Hating
• Double dates
• The rules: Love needs action, trust needs proof, sorry needs change.
• Fun random facts
• New friends
• One peice bathing suits
• Loving myself
• Quality time
• Being happy for others
• A lust for life
• Life long friendships
• LOTS of reflection
• Apples and peanut butter
• Positivity
• Being delicate with myself and knowing that’s ok even if I don’t think I need to be
• Monkey covering eyes emoji 🙈
• Old Kendrick Lamar albums (more specifically, section 80)
• Building fires
• Being a Nantucket local
• Farmers markets
• Reminiscing
• Using the reservation list to invade the privacy of people I grew up with
• Celebrating all the person growth I’ve had the past year and the person I am today!!
• Romantic prospects
• Being nonchalant
• Celebrating my 1/2 Birthdayyyy
• Earning things from me and in general
• Respecting my own boundaries
• Confronting issues head on and not letting myself have panic attacks in the lead up
• New additions to Camp Cohen
• Learning how to be legit bartending
• Doing things that scare me in different ways
• Living my life as I want to
• Female rage
• My finsta
• Valuing my time
• Recognizing this is a big month for me for so many reason and showing myself grace within it
• Closing the circle on my healing journey by passing a big milestone
• Being more public about my blog but also preserving its secrecy because that’s one of my favorite parts about it
• Being single

Outs:

• Losers!!!!!
• Shoes!!!!
• People not even on my same level of life sucking up value space in my mind and time in my day
• Waiting around for apologies
• iPhone finger dents you get from holding it a certain way
• People thinking they can steam roll over me
• Social anxiety
• Too much 🪴
• Being two faced/two faced people
• Being anxious for nothing and not being grateful for everything
• Shrinking back into states of fear or who I used to be
• Old energy
• Ditching your friends/accepting into my life who are just fine ditching me
• Not being obsessed with me, duh!
• Grudges
• People with bad music taste
• Clinton Kane (he was never in but I ride for my girl Brooke)
• Seeing randoms from school pop up on instagram suddenly on Nantucket claiming it for the aesthetic like they are locals
• Being scared about the future (small scale and large scale)
• Not putting my foot down
• Resentment
• Stressing or even giving a second thought to anyone who’s not obsessed with me
• Confusing giving the benefit of the doubt generously when warranted and being too nice
• The INSANELY unnecessary stress that comes with July 4th and letting it consume me
• Dealing with people not worth my time
• Closing myself off to things that scare me
• Worrying about/thinking about how I’m being perceived (I’ve never been like this before and I don’t like it)
• Going out (to like bars and clubs) for the moment
• Mourning
• July 19.
• Letting others drag things out
• Tolerating disrespect/biting my tongue ever
• Guilt
• Boring people
• The pickleball trend
• Letting people I’m with go home early
• Letting past trauma wear me down
• Giving those from my past any power over me in the present